10. Talk the walk
‘Walk the talk’ is being consistent: say something and then do what you said you would. ‘Talk the walk’ is when you act first and then follow it up with words consistent with your actions. The former is good management, but the latter is an extremely powerful disruptive idea.
The expression ‘walk the talk’ means you do what you ask other people to do or what you promised to do. There are a few variations on the theme, but they all come down to this: practice what you preach! Walking the talk is a key behaviour in the organisation, but not a disruptive behaviour. Walking the talk is absolutely necessary and people who do this are true value creators in three ways:
- They build trust. Trust professes the most ‘unfair’ un-linearity of all: small breaches of trust have the power of extrapolation, generalisation and of triggering total defence: “If you have failed me on this one, you’ll do it again.” People who walk the talk are reinforcing trust all the time because their primary driver is to behave in a way that shows consistency with what they say. Some of these people do this in a rather unconscious way.
- They are powerful role models. The power of imitation and/or social copying is enormous. Although one could role model via language, expressions, declaration of values, etc., there is nothing more powerful than overt, observable behaviours. Most of these powerful behaviours are silent. By that I mean that they are not announced and heralded; they happen naturally, not through spin.
- They practice behavioural translation. Our language is full of things that we call values, beliefs, mindsets, attitudes, etc. We can have good conversations within that vocabulary, but these may happen under the false assumption that we all agree on the specific meaning of these terms. Only behaviours are observable and unequivocal. There is no such thing as honesty, at least like there is grey hair or a deep voice. There are behaviours that when exhibited we agree to call honest. From there we then infer and create ‘honesty’ as a value-concept. The problem with mindsets, attitudes, values, etc. is that they are not operational. We can’t do much with them unless we translate those values and beliefs into observable behaviours.
All this is very well and desirable, almost a baseline. Hardly negative. You need all those behaviours and all those people big time. But the disruptive behaviour is actually the reverse of walk the talk. ‘Talk the walk’ goes beyond the simply necessary to find that inherent disproportion between the relatively simple behaviour and the big impact in the organisation:
- In walk the talk mode, you model the behaviour you told people you want to see from them. In talk the walk, you do it first and then talk about it afterwards.
- The walk the talk wisdom would say that you should do what you say you’re going to do. The talk the walk disruptive behaviour tells you to do it and only then to talk about what you have done and what you would like people to do as well.
- In walk the talk mode, you act following declarations. In talk the walk, you get involved personally in group activities that are strictly speaking only done by people reporting to you. You make yourself part of the team, even temporary. Walk with them and then talk about what’s happening, about how people are doing.
- The talk the walk disruptive behaviour can also be described as: do more, talk less.
Talk the walk is highly viral because people will see you doing something and then they will hear about the philosophy or the rationale behind it. Seeing the behaviour is the first step to successful imitation. Start with the action, follow up with the words. It doesn’t get more disruptive than that!
Do more, talk less (and only talk after you do).
Start with action, follow with explanations.
Walk the talk generates trust. Talk the walk generates exponential trust.
Invite people reporting to you to do the same. The viral spread works wonders.
Make sure your management actions are visible, so that you can explain them to all.
People may get confused about the language tricks (walk the talk vs. talk the walk). Explain the difference and invite people to change behaviours.
